Her rationale for these dating rules may seem obvious, but many people tend to forget in the heat of the moment.
"You might find that you don't even like the person," Allen tells Web MD.
And you probably both trimmed your pubes in preparation for this. Having to juggle multiple guys so you don't get sprung on one.
No matter how exhausted or not in the mood you both are, you have a duty as post-date sleepover partners — nay, as AMERICANS — to do it. But you might not have sex frequently enough to learn each others' styles and needs. You don't really feel like you can ask the person what they want in the long run.
Or you didn't bring and it does, and next thing you know, you're showing up to work on a 20-degree day in an Isabel Marant for H&M miniskirt. When the guy is wishy-washy about the bar/restaurant. You know how you feel when your friend is like, "OMG, my friend Jennifer's friend Jennifer is pretty," and you're like, "Ugh, I don't care about strangers? Is cuddling with a casual sex partner even cuddling? Consciously holding back from saying things about the future.
The drinking culture that pervades dating nowadays.
Not everyone is looking to make friendship connections or find their “forever love” after all (at least not right this minute).
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